Hello friends, familiar and new, and welcome to a house in a forest in France. I’m Jan and I hold spaces for those on journeys of transformation. I believe story is powerful and that the earth offers healing through our daily connection and herbal allies. My Sunday posts are always free. Let’s create a little alchemy together.
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On Thursday, the day of Lammas or Lughnasadh, I gathered with a group to think about what gathering means. Lammas is the first of the Celtic harvests when crops were gathered. It was a pause to nurture and encourage, to list and tend to one another.
To gather. What does it mean to you?
Do you think of foraging or a table around which friends or family meet?
Do you think of gathering ideas or fragments of story for a project or shells and stones from a beach?
Do you think of an inward gathering? People used to talk of gathering their wits. And to 'gather myself' can be an act of calm and composure.
The Old English root gadrian has meanings of both assembling and collecting or storing. We gather supplies to see us through a winter, which might be as metaphorical as it is metorological. A word that refers to people, emotions, flowers, food...Â
Who do you gather with?
The last time I gathered with every member of my immediate family was in the winter of 2019, before my youngest grandchild was born. Then came Covid and afterwards we were scattered around the globe. We gather 'virtually' at festivals and birthdays, but it's a very different experience. I cherish that for over thirty years we marked so many thresholds together in real time and in body.
What gatherings do you hold precious and/or significant?
Before Covid I gathered often with friends, old and new, at book launches for Cinnamon Press. The last one I did before the pandemic was in London and was for a book I'd written on the alchemy of the writing life -- February 2020. Recently, I launched smiling at grief in a house in a forest where life grows at the first live launch since then — a gathering at L'Autre Rive, where the novel is set, with new friends — the small group in a tiny forest bookshop-café had originally come from Belgium, Wales, England, France, Germany (via South Africa) and Ireland. So many different stories gathered, intersecting... Such a nourishing encounter.
What gathering recently nourished you -- online or in real life or both?
A gather is also a needlework stitch, a way of gathering cloth into folds — the thread bringing material together.Â
What are the threads that fold your story into the stories of others?
Today, walking in the forest that surrounds the house, the gathering was of plants and butterflies, trees and birds, insects and animals, unseen, but there. I stopped to gather my thoughts and to gather with:
honeysuckle
valerian
cow wheat
royal fern
bramble
French rose
pennywort
enchanter’s nightshade
bittercress
bird’s foot trefoil
meadowsweet
marsh thistle
yellow pimpernel
campion
loosestrife
sweet briar
Welsh poppy
Increasingly, my ideas of community expand into the more-than-human. Each month has particular herbs that call, that gather with me on a healing journey, speaking to what needs to be tended to or shown tenderness.
In what ways do you gather with the more-than-human?
Beyond the forest, farmer's are busy gathering crops, the plants that will feed us.Â
What are you currently harvesting in your life?
How does it feed you?
Is this the harvest you desire?
If you would like a different harvest, what one small, kind step can you take in its direction? (Remembering that sometimes the next kind step is to pause and rest).
Gathering is at the heart of herbal healing — coming together with plants who will share our story. It's at the heart of the healing we experience when we relate to an animal. It's at the heart of any nourishing circle we meet in, online or in person.Â
Sometimes the gathering is with those we can hold and sometimes this holding is found in the pages of books or on a Zoom call. As F Scott Fitzgerald put it
That is part of the beauty of all literature. You discover that your longings are universal longings, that you’re not lonely and isolated from anyone. You belong.
It was wonderful to gather with some of you for the lammas 'gather listen tend' workshop and I want to do more such gatherings in this space — finding opportunities to gather for restoration and inspiration. I'm delighted that I will be gathering with some of you for four weeks of herbal healing workshops for the season of Lammas to Autumn Equinox, startting on Wednesday (and there is still time to join).
For all of us, there are times when we need to gather ourselves for whatever is next in life. And gathering ourselves can be enhanced by a community of people who don’t have the answers, but do have the grace to tend to one another. Sometimes we find tending and tenderness in real life encounters, sometimes in the pages of a book or in an online circle. To gather with those who nourish your life and whose lives you nourish can be part of getting through the day in a world with so much grief and just plain exhaustion. Our relationships, our connections, not only ground and nurture us, but also centre us as communal animals, who grow better together. Our connections make life more sacred — as Henry David Thoreau put it in his journal:
The field where friends have met is consecrated forever.Â
Here's to gathering our stories — together.
Offerings
in the fruitful abundance
I have a new four session herbal course coming up in August and September well as a short workshop, ‘Gather Listen Tender’ —
Join me for a deep dive into autumn herbs of nourishment for body & spirit, a journey of herbal healing and creativity.
In the fruitful abundance: autumn herbs for gathering and nourishment will have four live workshops (recorded so you can also catch up later if you miss any or want to revisit the content). It will run on Wednesdays (except the final session, which is a Thursday) and the dates are August 7 & 21, September 4 & 19.
There will be lots of course materials, including extra material for between sessions — creative prompts, recipes, meditations, videos and more. Be part of a community of others in workshops,& on the private forum hosted on Mighty Networks where you can post work, thoughts and questions.
This is a supportive and creative space where you can explore using herbs in every day life for health and well-being. It’s suitable for people at all stages of journeys with herbs — come and learn some recipes and ways of taking inspiration from the plants for your creative life too.
You can find out more and join at the links below.
For friends who haven’t taken a previous course with me on Mighty Networks
For friends who have taken a previous course with me on MN
Gathering for me is rarely a time or a place in August, it here under the plum trees and here at the dryer or in the kitchen. But, it is a time of giving and sharing in hope of gatherings when the work is done…
Another lovely post Jan xx
In a few hours I'll be gathering greens from the property to add to my breakfast.